Although it's been a while since I've received a report card, God is very faithful in teaching me just how I am progressing in my relationships, especially with my wife. Recently, I drove my wife to tears. I had criticized something she had done. Not only was I very wrong in my criticism but I had hurt her.
I have repented and asked for forgiveness and I was reminded of this verse in 1Ptr. If we are going to be truly spiritual men then our prayers can not be hindered. There can't be a worse place to be in life than to have fellowship with God suffering. Our marriage is so important to God and his plan for each of us that He will put fellowship with Him on hold until we repent. And apart from God I can't accomplish anything.
It is important to understand that my wife is different from me. She is beautiful and feminine and I'm not. I am stronger and more courageous. I am to honour her, love her, nurture her, appreciate her because God made her this way. Thats what makes her a most suitable help meet in this first place. And most importantly she is equally created in God's image and an heir together with me in the grace of life.
A sobering reminder to love my wife.
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